Childbirth has been a topic of great interest to me since before the
birth of my first child. I suppose I felt some sort of destiny where
birth was concerned ever since helping my stepfather pull a lamb the year
he and my mother were married!
Years
of study and a variety of birth experiences led me down a path that has included
becoming an independent childbirth educator, occasional doula (labor support), and breastfeeding advocate.
To me, the word ministry sums up what I feel called to doto help women
have their babies in a way that is as healthy, satisfying, and safe as it can possibly be.
First, a bit about my experiences. My husband and I were separated during
the birth of our first child ... second birth was a "failed" home
birth and traumatic induced labor (for both me and baby) ... third baby
was a "gentle" induction. I came later to believe that inducing laborforcing
a baby to come before the fullness of timecan be as
much a violation of the womb's sanctity as many other technological interventions.
By the time our fourth child was conceived, my husband and I were prepared
for the decision of having our baby completely outside the medical system
with no one to depend on, "just in case," except God Himself. (Yes, this
decision has been regarded by many as risky and highly irresponsible.)
Our fourth and fifth children were born at
homeperfectly healthy, with no medical input during either pregnancy
or deliveryin the presence of a close friend and their grandmother,
respectively, and caught by their father. Our sixth child was also born
at home but became a loss that we feel would not have turned out very
differently had we been in the hospital (see Duncan's story, below). Our
seventh and eighth were also born at home, perfectly healthy, with no
complications, and continue to be the delight of our lives. My husband felt
we should have a midwife present for the birth of our ninth (also at home), and we were grateful
for her expertiseconfirming my belief that people need to hear from
God on each individual situation.
My essential viewpoint on childbirth boils down to two statements. One,
the God who spun the universe from His fingertips has NO problem bringing
a baby out from the womb in which He formed it. Two, doctors and hospitals
can be useful (at least from a purely natural standpoint), during an emergency
or critical illness, but even after experiencing "the worst" I am still
fully convinced that giving birth is neither!

Birth Stories
- Alistair's birth11/11/90 ~ hospital
birth, some interventions
- Ian's Birth6/17/92 ~ planned homebirth, transfer of care in
last month, induced labor ~ NEW!!!!
- Erin's birth2/15/94 ~ another induction,
but slower, without pain meds
- Ross' birth12/16/95 ~ our first unassisted
birth
- Breanna's birth10/14/97 ~ another
beautiful unassisted birth
- Duncan's story7/2/99 - 7/13/99 ~
when homebirth doesn't go as planned ... God is still in control!
- Cameron's birth7/15/00 ~ pregnancy
and birth after loss ~ Glory to God!!
- Corrie's birth10/3/02 ~ long, slow
labor but oh-so-worth-it!
- Meeghan's birth9/2/04 ~ my first midwife-attended waterbirth

Homebirth-Related Articles
I'm working on a seven-part set of outlines, complete with supplemental
articles (still in process), on preparing for home birth. My prayer
is that these may be a resource for those who cannot find support
or information through other means.
- Homebirth Outlines, Introduction ~ Please
read this first! Explains how these outlines came to be, cites some
resources, a disclaimer, more.
- Homebirth One/God's Design for the Family
~ a comparatively short overview, lots of Scripture
- Homebirth Two/Nutrition, Exercise, &
Other Prenatal Concerns ~ mostly from the physical, medical aspects
- Homebirth Three/Where to Birth, & Who
Should Be There? ~ Read this if you are undecided as to home or
hospital, or which caregiver to choose
- Homebirth Four/Labor and Delivery ~
Describes the process of uncomplicated, natural birth from start to
finish
- Homebirth Five/After the Birth ~ Care
of mother and baby immediately afterwards, delivery of placenta, other
postpartum concerns up to six weeks or so
- Homebirth Six/Interventions in Labor &
Delivery ~ Read this one even if you are planning a hospital birth!!!!
Very important information on how complications and normal variations
in labor are generally handled by the medical profession, and why these
are not always done in the mother's and baby's best interests.
- Homebirth Seven/Baby Care & Breastfeeding
~ Discussion of routine newborn procedures within the medical system
and pros and cons of each, basic newborn care at home (what is normal,
what is not), getting breastfeeding off to a good start and keeping
it that way, when (and who) to call for help
- Coming Soon ~ A listing of related online articles and essays
on topics related to home, specifically unassisted, birth; ALSO the
companion Scripture studies to the outlines on topics such as Faith
vs. Fear, verses related to birth and breastfeeding, others

Childbirth & Breastfeeding Links
Disclaimer: my use of these links does not, of course, constitute automatic
endorsement on my part of the views or teachings held within. They are
for your enjoyment and enrichment, and you are expected to exercise your
own discernment while reading the content of any site.
- My Personal Statement on Zion Birth and
related matters
- BirthJunkie.com ~ One family's
adventures in unassisted birth, lots of stories from both sides of the
fence, and other information on birth! VERY active message board. Articles
coming from the "anti" side of Zion birth. (Note: my first two home
births are also featured on this site.)
- Christian UC ~ Unassisted
childbirth information from a distinctly Christian point of view.
- Purebirth Australia ~ Unassisted
pregnancy & childbirth "Down Under" ~ Nice site, very informative! ~ NEW!!!
- Bob's Unassisted
Homebirth Page for Fathers ~ A unique site, from the DAD'S point
of view! ~ Don't forget to check out the home site of this one!
- The Joy of pleasurable
childbirth ~ Extensive articles and links related to home/unassisted
birth, now compliled into a book, by Laurie Morgan. (Formerly Laurie's
Humble Home on the Web)
- ProMom.com ~ All kinds of breastfeeding
information ... 101 reasons to breastfeed, Dr. Jack Newman's very informative
articles, message board, more!
- Moms 4 Milk ~ Mother's Milk,
that is! The latest in breastfeeding research in one easily accessible
place ~ Get thefacts, and pass them on!
- The Midwives' Archives
At GentleBirth.com ~ Have a question you can't find elsewhere? Just
want to compare notes with others? Check out this site! Exhaustive resource
for all sorts of pregnancy, birth, and postpartum issues.

Businesses Online
- BirthSupplies.com ~ AKA Spirit-Led
Childbirth ~ Birthing, Midwifery, and Parenting supplies. My personal
favorite.
- Elizabeth Lee Designs ~ Original
patterns for maternity and nursing wear, also baby slings.
- Motherwear ~ Wide variety
of ready-made nursing fashions
- One Hot Mama ~ Fashionable maternity
and nursing clothes, much more!
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